"Two Truths and a Lie"
It’s been a bit. I’ve struggled to write, not only due to having a full schedule, but because any time I write a blog I put myself in the...
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- Feb 6, 2022
- 4 min
Broken and Alone
Often I hear partners doubt their own self worth and feel broken and alone. I get it. Spending years in a relationship where it’s said...
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- Jan 1, 2022
- 5 min
Happy New Year....?!!
Or not. It all depends on your perspective. Or how you spent last night with all of the expectations of fun with friends or family. Or...
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- Dec 10, 2021
- 5 min
Redeeming Christmas
It’s been a bit. And I’m sorry. Lot’s of emotions going on at this time of year. Lot's of loss and loved ones who are hurting. Lot's of...
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- Nov 14, 2021
- 6 min
Safety During The Holidays
Safety during the holiday season. Is it really possible? Yes….as long as you’re not trying to wing it. You need to be prepared. What...
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- Aug 1, 2021
- 5 min
I Needed You, Friend
When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...
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- Jun 29, 2021
- 5 min
Broken by the Church
My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...
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- Jun 22, 2021
- 5 min
Will I Ever Feel Safe At Church?
Nothing like Covid-19 to screw up church attendance. But then again there’s Betrayal Trauma. As a faithful church attendee, I don’t...
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- Jun 14, 2021
- 5 min
Angry at God
This is a hard post to write but since this topic is so common with partners, who become filled with guilt, it's time. So, here we go.......
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- May 30, 2021
- 4 min
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure: How to prepare and what to expect
Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...
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- May 14, 2021
- 3 min
What do I need to know about Disclosure?
Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...
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- May 3, 2021
- 4 min
Trusting after Betrayal, part 2
**POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING** What does that look like when you don’t stay with your partner and move on into a new relationship? As a...
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- Apr 28, 2021
- 4 min
Trusting After Sexual Betrayal, Part 1
Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...
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