It’s been a bit. I’ve struggled to write, not only due to having a full schedule, but because any time I write a blog I put myself in the...

Often I hear partners doubt their own self worth and feel broken and alone. I get it. Spending years in a relationship where it’s said...

Or not. It all depends on your perspective. Or how you spent last night with all of the expectations of fun with friends or family. Or...

It’s been a bit. And I’m sorry. Lot’s of emotions going on at this time of year. Lot's of loss and loved ones who are hurting. Lot's of...

Safety during the holiday season. Is it really possible? Yes….as long as you’re not trying to wing it. You need to be prepared. What...

When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...

My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...

Nothing like Covid-19 to screw up church attendance. But then again there’s Betrayal Trauma. As a faithful church attendee, I don’t...

This is a hard post to write but since this topic is so common with partners, who become filled with guilt, it's time. So, here we go.......

Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...

Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...

**POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING** What does that look like when you don’t stay with your partner and move on into a new relationship? As a...

Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...