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Fear of Finances...Should I Have Stayed

The other day as I walked around my neighborhood in tears, I realized that I was letting fear have its grip on me. I realized that some...

Happy New Year....?!!

Or not. It all depends on your perspective. Or how you spent last night with all of the expectations of fun with friends or family. Or...

Safety During The Holidays

Safety during the holiday season. Is it really possible? Yes….as long as you’re not trying to wing it. You need to be prepared. What...

Will It Ever Stop

When the waves of panic hit and we feel out of control barely able to stand, time and time again, wondering if it will ever stop, those...

I Needed You, Friend

When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...

Broken by the Church

My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure: How to prepare and what to expect

Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...

Trusting After Sexual Betrayal, Part 1

Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...