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How Does Emotional Abuse Fit?

Emotional abuse is everywhere and is something that we are all capable of doing, just like we can all gaslight. The difference is motive....

I Matter

Throughout my marriage, I truly thought that I didn’t matter. In reality, that feeling began way before that, but it was reiterated over...

Gaslighting: the Epitome of Confusion

Am I really crazy? Did that really happen and I just don’t remember it? I could have sworn I saw/said/did ______ but I guess I was wrong....

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure: How to prepare and what to expect

Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...

What do I need to know about Disclosure?

Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...

Trusting After Sexual Betrayal, Part 1

Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...