It's Not Always As It Seems
From the outside looking in, it's not always what it seems. One would think you’re the luckiest girl alive. I’d actually been told that....
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Mar 6, 20226 min read
Marriage Counseling...is it the Right Choice
Well meaning friends and family want to help. They don’t know how or even what to say, so they make suggestions. See your pastor for...
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Nov 14, 20216 min read
Safety During The Holidays
Safety during the holiday season. Is it really possible? Yes….as long as you’re not trying to wing it. You need to be prepared. What...
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Oct 17, 20215 min read
Will It Ever Stop
When the waves of panic hit and we feel out of control barely able to stand, time and time again, wondering if it will ever stop, those...
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Oct 11, 20215 min read
How Does Emotional Abuse Fit?
Emotional abuse is everywhere and is something that we are all capable of doing, just like we can all gaslight. The difference is motive....
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Sep 22, 20216 min read
Navigating Through Grief
What does grieving look like? It’s different for everyone. Often we think it’s a linear process that starts at one place and through...
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Aug 15, 20215 min read
I Matter
Throughout my marriage, I truly thought that I didn’t matter. In reality, that feeling began way before that, but it was reiterated over...
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Aug 1, 20215 min read
I Needed You, Friend
When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...
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Jul 8, 20214 min read
Boundaries with a Gaslighter
Boundaries with an Addict was one of my most read and referenced blogs. If you haven’t read it yet, please do so in order to better...
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Jun 29, 20215 min read
Broken by the Church
My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...
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Jun 14, 20215 min read
Angry at God
This is a hard post to write but since this topic is so common with partners, who become filled with guilt, it's time. So, here we go.......
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May 30, 20214 min read
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure: How to prepare and what to expect
Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...
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May 7, 20214 min read
What Is Sex Addiction? (Trigger Warning)
Often people think that if you are a sex addict, it simply means that you have a high sex drive. Or that you have had an affair while in...
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