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"Two Truths and a Lie"

It’s been a bit. I’ve struggled to write, not only due to having a full schedule, but because any time I write a blog I put myself in the...

How Does Emotional Abuse Fit?

Emotional abuse is everywhere and is something that we are all capable of doing, just like we can all gaslight. The difference is motive....

I Matter

Throughout my marriage, I truly thought that I didn’t matter. In reality, that feeling began way before that, but it was reiterated over...

I Needed You, Friend

When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...

What do I need to know about Disclosure?

Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...

Trusting After Sexual Betrayal, Part 1

Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...