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"Two Truths and a Lie"

It’s been a bit. I’ve struggled to write, not only due to having a full schedule, but because any time I write a blog I put myself in the...

Redeeming Christmas

It’s been a bit. And I’m sorry. Lot’s of emotions going on at this time of year. Lot's of loss and loved ones who are hurting. Lot's of...

Safety During The Holidays

Safety during the holiday season. Is it really possible? Yes….as long as you’re not trying to wing it. You need to be prepared. What...

Navigating Through Grief

What does grieving look like? It’s different for everyone. Often we think it’s a linear process that starts at one place and through...

I Matter

Throughout my marriage, I truly thought that I didn’t matter. In reality, that feeling began way before that, but it was reiterated over...

I Needed You, Friend

When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...

Boundaries with a Gaslighter

Boundaries with an Addict was one of my most read and referenced blogs. If you haven’t read it yet, please do so in order to better...

Gaslighting: the Epitome of Confusion

Am I really crazy? Did that really happen and I just don’t remember it? I could have sworn I saw/said/did ______ but I guess I was wrong....

What Is Sex Addiction? (Trigger Warning)

Often people think that if you are a sex addict, it simply means that you have a high sex drive. Or that you have had an affair while in...

Boundaries with an Addict

Boundaries with an addict....this is a question I get asked. A lot. What do they look like? How do I keep them? When referring to an...