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How Would I Have Answered

I had a follow up doctors appointment the other day. They asked some questions relating to safety, both physically and emotionally, at...

How Does Emotional Abuse Fit?

Emotional abuse is everywhere and is something that we are all capable of doing, just like we can all gaslight. The difference is motive....

Navigating Through Grief

What does grieving look like? It’s different for everyone. Often we think it’s a linear process that starts at one place and through...

I Needed You, Friend

When I got married, it was forever. Or that’s what my intent was. Several years into my second marriage, I surrendered my heart to Jesus...

Boundaries with a Gaslighter

Boundaries with an Addict was one of my most read and referenced blogs. If you haven’t read it yet, please do so in order to better...

Broken by the Church

My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...

Will I Ever Feel Safe At Church?

Nothing like Covid-19 to screw up church attendance. But then again there’s Betrayal Trauma. As a faithful church attendee, I don’t...

Boundaries with an Addict

Boundaries with an addict....this is a question I get asked. A lot. What do they look like? How do I keep them? When referring to an...