Boundaries with an Addict was one of my most read and referenced blogs. If you haven’t read it yet, please do so in order to better...

My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...

Nothing like Covid-19 to screw up church attendance. But then again there’s Betrayal Trauma. As a faithful church attendee, I don’t...

This is a hard post to write but since this topic is so common with partners, who become filled with guilt, it's time. So, here we go.......

Am I really crazy? Did that really happen and I just don’t remember it? I could have sworn I saw/said/did ______ but I guess I was wrong....

Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...

Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...

Often people think that if you are a sex addict, it simply means that you have a high sex drive. Or that you have had an affair while in...

**POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING** What does that look like when you don’t stay with your partner and move on into a new relationship? As a...

Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...

Boundaries with an addict....this is a question I get asked. A lot. What do they look like? How do I keep them? When referring to an...